how to use great conversation to add happiness to your life

Happiness! Great conversation!Yes, these are big issues: In fact, they're so big and important that you shouldn't leave them to chance. They're so crucial that you should plan to have them in your life. Can a person plan for happiness? How about great conversation? Let's say that we can. Let's act as if The Answer to How Is Yes. Let's begin to plan.

What is happiness? What is great conversation?

We could cop out and say both definitions depend on the person and the circumstance. Let's not do that. Instead let's make some definitive statements and go from there.

As a starting point can we agree that ...

(1) Happiness is the feeling of satisfaction and equilibrium. That would be different for every person but happy people are generally satisfied with their life and they feel balanced, as in not out of whack.

(2) great conversation is dialogue that some how leaves you better off than you were before you participated in it.

Sound too lofty? Well, what's so bad about that? You only live once so you might as well strive for worthy, high-minded goals. The alternative is mediocrity and ordinariness. MultiPurposeWomen are better than that.

So if happy people are satisfied and balanced, how can you use great conversation to satisfy and balance your wants and needs?

so if happy people are satisfied and balanced ...

Self Improvement by
Asking Questions?
Questioning yourself is a tried and true path toward personal growth. You can start right now by adding your response to the define happiness section.

In the Random Interviews part of MultiPurposeWoman you can relax and read interviews with women by women. Some of the interviews will be self generated so you can gain some spirituality information.

If you're a registered member, you can even start a thread to ask your own interview questions.
Can Free Advice by Priceless?
Q: What will random interviews with smart and happy women reveal about your life?



A: As you read the responses other people give to the random interview questions you'll start to see what kinds of actions and motivations fit who you are or who you want to become.

You will then be able to engage those people in deeper on- or off-line conversations about life in general or some specific topic. You may be especially interested in the favorite books of those women.



Q: How can random interviews be a self help tool?



A: The best instructors teach by example. Learning about what works for women you admire can guide you to create your own successes.

I believe that self esteem for women is partly a function of our realizing that we all have some tip, some advice that another woman will find useful as she moves toward self improvement and happiness. Our lives are examples to self and other women and to girls.